tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3460560150678644486.post5947416692664459479..comments2024-02-08T13:57:40.345-08:00Comments on Chaka's World: Letting Go and Moving OnTomhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17679642225332541173noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3460560150678644486.post-87830018890732901512009-06-12T18:10:45.559-07:002009-06-12T18:10:45.559-07:00I read this book once, "Forgiving the Unforgi...I read this book once, "Forgiving the Unforgiveable." It was written by a social worker and her theory was that we forgive people, not for them, but to free ourselves up to move on. That book really helped me forgive my ex-husband, and I've gone on to a much happier life from leaving all that crap behind.<br /><br />Good post!Jeanne Estridgehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13096521122802823385noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3460560150678644486.post-87521518730196986992009-06-08T14:36:25.328-07:002009-06-08T14:36:25.328-07:00The energy needed to sulk and hang on to negative ...The energy needed to sulk and hang on to negative feelings does not seem to be worth the effort compared to moving on and letting go. A Texas oil dynasty fell victim to a sibling assisted hostile buy out years ago when an angry sister never forgave her brother for having fed her pet ostrich an orange that caused it to die when they were little kids. Way to go with stupid grudges that go from early childhood to old age! Even if you can't forgive it is better to go forward in peace. To do otherwise is emotional constipation.Der Grexxiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05311320782169041408noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3460560150678644486.post-15498244095047364942009-06-08T14:00:44.652-07:002009-06-08T14:00:44.652-07:00Just very generalized observations. Nobody specifi...Just very generalized observations. Nobody specific.Tomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17679642225332541173noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3460560150678644486.post-31299965578369893562009-06-08T11:46:16.187-07:002009-06-08T11:46:16.187-07:00Are you talking to anyone in particular?Are you talking to anyone in particular?Beckalitahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14631892879896307950noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3460560150678644486.post-73513995231763143432009-06-07T17:55:13.128-07:002009-06-07T17:55:13.128-07:00I have so many problems with forgiveness. I can fo...I have so many problems with forgiveness. I can forgive when people say sorry...all is forgiven...but when they don't?? ooohhhh boy. <br /><br />you know? even though I teach yoga, which is all about letting go...it's like the hardest thing to do. I am NOT good at letting go. I'm a scorpio. It's like genetic. <br /><br />I feel like some people are good at it and some people are not. In some situations, I just don't know HOW. I don't WANT to hate authority...I just do. <br /><br />And help for me dr. chaka?peeweehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16326685199371901024noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3460560150678644486.post-53640431869512919612009-06-07T17:48:55.195-07:002009-06-07T17:48:55.195-07:00I learned when living in a Jewish Orthodox neighbo...I learned when living in a Jewish Orthodox neighborhood that there actually is a day when they are required to forgive enemies.<br /><br />Not a bad idea.<br /><br />Nice post Chaka!Kellyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08338688515732965297noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3460560150678644486.post-3457255816078075392009-06-07T16:49:04.278-07:002009-06-07T16:49:04.278-07:00Well said!Well said!Massage MANhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08665619810283490408noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3460560150678644486.post-28002646488414544482009-06-07T13:07:25.121-07:002009-06-07T13:07:25.121-07:00Great post, Chaka. I have a family member that I d...Great post, Chaka. I have a family member that I don't hold a grudge against, necessarily, but I haven't truly forgiven either.Kristina P.https://www.blogger.com/profile/16144488639100871226noreply@blogger.com