Wednesday, August 18, 2010

Mental Ilness

I have always felt pretty emotionally and mentally stable, but like most people, occasionally I have a bad day. Several months ago I had one of those days and experienced a little "episode". I felt like I was having an anxiety attack. I was very irritable and grouchy. I was tired and hungry and what was really frustrating was that I was bothered by something that I could not even identify.

That evening there was a very strange sunset as a storm moved in. I felt like a parakeet in a cage that gets an aura before an earthquake. There was a weird orange apocalyptic sunset that was weirding me out and I couldn't think straight. I was mean to my kids kind of like George Baily in It's A Wonderful Life, but I was over it the next day. It gave me a scare and made me appreciate how normal I usually feel and made me grateful that I don't have a mental illness (at least officially diagnosed) that causes me to feel that way regularly.

I don't have any immediate family members with mental illness, so I am not very familiar with the many different illnesses that people may suffer from. My grandfather had schizophrenia and was always paranoid that people were messing with his light switches or were plotting against him. It can be hard to have a normal relationship when someone is paranoid and doesn't trust you.

Years ago anyone that struggled in this area was simply labeled as crazy and either locked up or shunned. As a society, we still have a ways to go when it comes to treating and interacting with those who suffer from mental illness. I'm sure many of the homeless people we see are suffering in this way. I don't mean some of the scam artists you see holding cardboard signs, but the people pushing grocery carts full of garbage around town year round.

I know this is a sensitive subject and sometimes hard to approach. If someone has a broken leg, their problem is obvious and you expect them to go to the doctor, but if someone has a mental illness, there is often a stigma attached for using medication, or going to a psychologist or psychiatrist. Watch A Beautiful Mind or The Soloist sometime and they will make you grateful and more aware of this topic. It is also interesting to learn how many great people and achievers in history suffered from mental illness. Sorry, no clever post today, but I thought I'd just express some gratitude and create a little awareness.

7 comments:

Kristina P. said...

Well said. I have anxiety. Not daily, more phobia kind of stuff. I used to have panic attacks last year. Very scary.

Dr Zibbs said...

It's true. Mental illness sucks.

Not that I suffer from it but...

Well, ADHD.

Cheeseboy said...

Interesting stuff Chaka.

Have you seen Shutter Island? It's a pretty intense mental illness movie.

Akiva Naive said...

I understand the feelings that you have at this moment. I feel the same way and I always feel as if no one I know could understand me. Truthfully, they don't and I have no one to turn to. You are a mother which means you have children looking towards you for guidance, and I believe you can pull through this.

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Kelly said...

I am having a bad day today actually. Maybe a little Zanax will help....

(just kidding I don't take Zanax.... often)

ISRAEL CARRASCO said...

Read "Depression Free for Life". It helped me greatly.